I am a 72 year-old retired volunteer firefighter, soccer coach, writer and leadership consultant. My wife and I live in Santa Fe NM with one daughter and two dogs. (never be outnumbered by dogs). We have another daughter and two grandchildren in Minneapolis, land of the Stoics and winter and their dog, Tallulah. My latest book, "Firefighter Zen, A Field Guide to Thriving in Tough Times" was published by New World Library in the middle of the pandemic. Timing is everything! It's available at Amazon.com or your local bookstore. You should read it. It's very good. (My mom said so and being Irish, she rarely lies. . . .)